How can we expect it to solve our problems. If I knew whether leaving John would help or harm him I could decide in an instance what steps to take. If I knew whether we have a beautiful friendship grown out of long acquaintance, a sexual attraction or real love upon which marriage should be based - I could decide.
At twenty-two John is disappointed with life. It would help to know how much I have to do with it if anything. Where love is concerned is there ever any doubt?