Instead, pause. Breathe. Feel that there is a stable, spiritual foundation under you. That is your safety, in your ability to rest there and to trust. Know that you usually won't see the big picture, but feel the divine forces at work in your life, driving you toward a fuller, wiser version of yourself - giving you what you need, even when you don't understand yet that you need it.
I can often fall into the trap of feeling good when it seems my life is in control. In reality, we are never in control. Life is aways full of surprises--and other people with wills and agendas of their own. Of course, take positive action toward a life that matches your values, take responsibility and initiative around what matters to you. But don't measure the success of your life by how well you can manipulate it to match your assumptions or goals. As much as we think we have noble intentions, the effort to control often comes from fear and a need to create a sense of safety.
Instead, pause. Breathe. Feel that there is a stable, spiritual foundation under you. That is your safety, in your ability to rest there and to trust. Know that you usually won't see the big picture, but feel the divine forces at work in your life, driving you toward a fuller, wiser version of yourself - giving you what you need, even when you don't understand yet that you need it.
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AuthorTarn Wilson is the author of the memoir The Slow Farm and numerous essays. You may read more of her work at tarnwilson.com. Archives
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