Here is a way of reframing: Right now, God - Love, Spirit, Consciousness - is acting and moving and being, and we are part of that movement and unfolding. We are co-actors. We are not identities stuck inside bodies and brains trying to serve ourselves - or guess at another's needs. We are serving the Great Unfolding that exists in the space between all of us, and of which we are a part.
Make resting and listening and acting in the Great Unfolding our goal, and be ready to be surprised. Be ready for unexpected answers. Be ready for unexpected blessings. Be ready for uncomfortable and wonderful shifts.