Today, know that you don't have to understand a problem before you feel Love attending to it. You don't have to understand the causes of the relationship problem; the reason someone is behaving that way; the reason you are behaving that way; the power dynamics of a group; or how a mechanical, economic, biological, or political system functions. Your insight and understanding can be helpful, but it is not always necessary--and rarely the first step. First, feel the active, powerful presence of Love.
Tarn Wilson is the author of the memoir The Slow Farm and numerous essays. You may read more of her work at tarnwilson.com.