"All I wanted was to become whole, to fill that void at the core of my being, to create a substantial, enduring identity - something I could definitively call 'me.' What I've learned is that the void can never be filled, because it's not mine to fill. It belongs to everyone and nobody at the same time. We all share it, but none of us owns it. It's who we we are when we forget ourselves completely, and where we go when we're lost in the act of doing something we love."